Why your love needs a boost
More often than not we all end up with the regret and anger towards the person we love. Ever thought why? Well most couples burn out whether due to work life commitments or due to simply drifting away. But that doesn’t mean your love is dead, it simply needs a boost some romantic time and a commitment to bring back that love. How do you boost back to your usually mushy love: Well here are a few tips to get back towards loving each other:
Honestly, if you want to go back to the first stages of falling in love. Those endless phone talks, get a grip. It is not going to happen. When we are falling for someone we try to discover different aspects of that person. After a few years we all slide into the ease and comfort of that love, exhilaration becomes a thing of that past. Yes small gestures can make your heart beat a notch higher but that will not give you the flutters initial love did.
Love yourself first
The biggest reason we all are unhappy is because we tend to find the other half to complete us. There is no other half, no one can complete you till the time you do not feel complete and happy from within. So work on being happy about yourself and then thing about the relationship.
Have couple only time
With work, family and kids often love and couple time becomes much more about discussing in laws, kids etc. When you both walk out for a romantic date make sure you do not talk about these topics. Yes, they are a big part of your life but you married each other for love and that is the base you need to remember and talk about. Often most married couples tend to forget fun and romance over nitty-gritty’s of the daily life. Go on a date and try something different like a rock show, a music festival or an amusement park.
Work on love
When people say love requires no effort it’s a big lie. Love requires most effort from support to anger to talking about random things. Some of the best nights have been the ones we have spent laughing or listening to old Bollywood numbers.
Work on your relationship to make it an everlasting bond. There are many mediocrities in life, let your relationship never be one.