50 shades of Grey: Sex tips men can learn

EL James might be called ‘mommy porn’ but it has left many Indian women high and dry (ironically!). So what does 50 shades of Grey do to women? They love all the spanking and bondage stuff in the book! The main character Christian Grey, is young and sexy. He has passion for two things his money and kinky sex.

Become the Cristian Grey in your woman’s life. To make it happen in real life here are insider tips from women to men:

Foreplay is a must: Time and again we stress on the importance of foreplay. But for rocking sex try foreplay; add some kinky elements to it by using a paddle to hit on her erroneous zones. Though do not get too rough! Or even better start with the foreplay while leaving for work, during working hours sends her a sizzling text. This will up the anticipation levels throughout the day and result in mind-blowing sex at night. Christian Grey always makes his woman prepped and ready.

Have the right sex knowledge: Women are happy when their man knows what he is doing. Getting clumsy during sex radiates lack of skills! So be confident in your touch and style of sex. Read or watch some porn for insights into confident fuckery!

Experiment: Try and experiment! Be it during foreplay, sex toys, positions. Experimenting keeps the interest alive. Same old vanilla sex is not what Christian Grey would love and neither do Indian women. Innovate and maybe it is time to invest in some blindfolds and handcuffs.

PDA is a must: We do not mean locking lips in from on the family. Holding her hand when praising her will be enough. But do it often and be sure it is genuine. Praising and appreciating your women makes them confident about their relationship. This confidence also adds up to sexual confidence and they are more willing to try some new stuff.

Be ‘the’ man: For all the women’s liberation, we still want our men to act the manly part of a relationship. Being protected by a strong man makes women confident about their love for your. As in the novel where Grey would dominate and be confident of all situations, sexual or asexual.