Why couples fight after festive season

Couple after an argument/freedigitalphotos
Couple after an argument/freedigitalphotos

After the much fun and celebrations come lots of arguments and fights. Some may have understood but for others who are still wondering what are they?

Just read on to know the most common reasons for rows after the festive season is over and how to handle them.

Why didn’t you invite me to your work party: Partner should understand that professional and personal life should be separate. Explain him or her that it’s not etiquette to bring partners at a work party because it’s time to bond with co-workers.

You didn’t help me with shopping:  Girls love to shop but also want their spouses to accompany them especially during festive seasons. The best solution to avoid a fight it is to divide the work accordingly.

You act weird around your family:  This especially goes for the wives as they mostly complain about it. But ladies just remember that he is not only your husband but a son and a brother too so let him be the way he wants to be with his family. Respect his feelings and emotions.

You got a wrong gift for me:  At times a surprise gift by your spouse  may not be that appealing but always show regard towards it and don’t just start cribbing and criticising about it.  If you want a gift of your choice just express it directly or give a wish list.

Why always a party at our place:  Some  people enjoy inviting and treating their friends  at home so in case your other half is one of those just try explaining that it gets hectic for you.  You can also ask him to  help you out with work.